How to deal with a child throwing tantrums?

By Hey Bee February 14 2020 in Babycare

Like adults, children also start exploring their behavior at different ages. But like adults, children don’t have words to express their emotions; they are just discovering different ways of behavior in order to influence people. So tantrums are just a method of expressing feelings for children, all we need to do is try and understand what is happening around them.

Tantrums cannot be totally avoided but of course can be controlled.

1.) Ensure the child is not stressed – if the child is tired, hungry or stressed he/she may experience tantrums.

2.) Identify the sources that lead to tantrums, for e.g. If your child is experiencing tantrums when you are involved in a conversation, try to hold it for a moment and listen, in case you are avoiding it might trigger and lead to a frustrated behavior. Next, when you have a long family conversation, ensure you have a book to read or some coloring assignment for a child to keep them busy.

3.) Distract your child and don’t try to be rebellious when the child is experiencing tantrums. Just try to change the environment or start a new activity.

4.) Just try and talk about the feeling, encourage them to name the feeling. For example if the child throws a toy, ask them why they threw it? It wasn’t working? What could have been done? And what could be the consequences of throwing it?

5.) Keep calm, take time (a minute) to control yourself first before reacting to the situation. If you get angry, the situation can be hard both for you and your child.

6.) Be consistent in your approach, if you give a phone to a child during meals when the child experiences tantrums and sometimes you don’t, things can get worse.

Once the child turns 5, tantrums may considerably reduce as they develop an understanding of consequences of their behavior. You can explain them immediately or at night in the form of a story.

  

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